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One of our greatest wounding as women is "disappointment"!

Nov 05, 2024

Disappointment is an Energetic and Spiritual Wounding 

Disappointment is more than a simple emotional reaction, it resonates on an energetic and spiritual level. When we face disappointment, it feels like a fracture in our energetic field, disrupting the harmony within us. This disruption can leave us feeling unbalanced and can lead to spiritual disconnection.

It can be a disappointment from a family member, a partner, a child, a client or even a friend. The reason that you feel disappointment is because the frequency of it resides in your energy field from the very first time you experienced it, may be when you were a child, or may be even energetically transferred to you by another person, like your mother, or even a grandmother, through generations. 

Think of your mother, did she feel the energy of disappointment a lot of the time? What was her life like? What were her relationships like? Did she do the things she loved? Was she financially free? Was she creative?  Expressive? The answers to these questions can give you insight to her mental, emotional, spiritual or even physical wellbeing. 

Now think of your grandmother? Any other ancestors you know of? Was there a pattern of disappointment in their lives?

The problem with fearing disappointment is that we love a little less and we trust a little less, just in case we are disappointed. We avoid the very thing that would make us happy, just in case we lose it. 

Either way, the energy needs to be released and transmuted and new energy activated in your body and energy field, only then it will stop happening. 

Energetically, disappointment manifests as a decrease in our vibrational frequency. It's like a heavy fog that settles over our aura, dampening our spirit and making us feel weighed down. This can obstruct the flow of positive energy, leading to feelings of stagnation and hopelessness.

Spiritually, disappointment can cause a rift between our inner self and our higher self. It creates a sense of separation from our true nature and purpose, leaving us feeling lost and disconnected from the universe. This spiritual wounding can challenge our beliefs and shake our faith, making it hard to trust in the process of life.

Healing Disappointment Energetically and Spiritually

1. Acknowledge the Pain: Recognise and accept the feelings of disappointment without judgment. This honest acknowledgment is the first step towards healing.

2. Energy Cleansing: Practice energy-cleansing techniques such as smudging with sage, taking salt baths, or using crystals like amethyst and rose quartz to purify your aura and restore balance.

3. Grounding Exercises: Engage in grounding activities like walking barefoot on grass, meditating with earth elements, or practicing yoga to reconnect with the Earth and stabilise your energy field.

4. Positive Affirmations: Use affirmations to reframe your mindset and uplift your spirit. Phrases like "I release all disappointment and embrace hope" can help shift your energy towards positivity.

5. Reconnect Spiritually: Spend time in nature, practice mindfulness, or engage in spiritual practices that resonate with you, such as prayer, meditation, or journaling, to rebuild your connection with the universe.

6. Seek Support: Share your feelings with trusted friends, family, or a spiritual advisor. Sometimes, just having someone listen can provide immense healing.

7. Embrace Self-Love: Treat yourself with compassion and kindness. Engage in activities that bring you joy and nourish your soul, reminding yourself that you are worthy of love and happiness.

Healing from disappointment requires patience and a holistic approach that nurtures both your energetic and spiritual well-being. Allow yourself the time and space to heal, and trust that this process will ultimately lead you to greater self-awareness and inner peace.

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